Pause for a while!!Give it a thought!!

Hello everybody,
I knw its quite suprising to see me posting something so soon when my prev posts s jus two days old..Anyways Revs reminded of somethin wch i ve been plannin to do fr a very long time - 'To post something on social issue..
I ve been plannin it fr quite a while bt somehow i cud never try my hands on it coz i felt "wats the point in doing it??" Is it really gonna change anything??Not even a bit..But today am writing on it jus to take out all my anger n my frustations..I know this post is not gonna be a thought-provoking one coz its about something wch am sure all of us have certainly thought about but ve done nothin!!So its no different n not gonna provoke anything..For my own sake i wud continue writing.. I wud jus give my own bitter experience which in itself will serve as the best example fr wat am plannin to pen down..
I got up as usual at 9 o clock in the morning expecting an exciting day ahead..Went to a near-by shop(its a proper restaraunt) fr a tea..I saw a group of boys(4 of them) sittin there..The moment i stepped in they said somethin abt me..Then they kept starin at me..I knew tat..I jus tried to ignore them n went to a shop to buy some stuff n i saw tat these guys were following me thr too..Ths time i pretended to ignore them n started walkin towards my treet..To my suprise i found them there also..I was scared,cud feel shivers runnin all over..I cud nt ignore them..so went n complained ths to my neighbour..Seein me doin ths, these guys went inside the flat adjacent to my house..I went upstairs wt tht uncle where i found out tat these guys were some bachelors stayin in tat apartment..These people wen being questioned, bluntly said tat it was "their house" n they were jus tryin to get back home..I was perplexed and dumbstruck..I knew i was teased by them but jus because i was fallin short of a proper proof i had to take back all my complaints..I was clueless..I dint know how to react..I Pitied my plight.This was yet another incident of its types which i constantly face..Only difference was-i tried raising up against it this time without knowing tat i wud end up fallin into an abyss..
Now coming on to the issue..I guess this kind of eve-teasing is no new to anyone. everyone of us must ve experienced or atleast heard of this..Its jus this typical social crime of "eve-teasing " as u fondly call them , where the perpetrators and victims are ordinary people..But worst part is its being wrote about as a victimless crime..Any issue of its kind surfaces only when something prominent happens..People agree tat a gal is bein harassed only wen they find a few cuts or wounds on her body..But believe me its the mental harassement tat is more worse coz here even the people r not ready to believe tat somethin bad must ve really happened.(just because we r nt able to prove it)..I guess its high time people understood tat anything tat is done to a woman without her consent is equal to a RAPE..Tat includes following her, staring at her..Am not trying to be a feminist but i just want to make a point to all m fellow frens who are boys "Please do educate ur frenz ,tell them not to indulge in these things n make our existence even more difficult.. Understand that God made men and women equal, and that girls have as much right to respect as boys.."..Chennai is such big place n yet we fall short of some lil space to live happily n peacefully.. If I walk alone on the street after dusk I ve a fear of being harassed to the point of danger..If i go in a auto i ve the fear of auto drivers abductin me and sellin me into slavery..I mite sound very dramatic but i hope u all know the case of Auto Shankar.. One must admit that these eve-teasing is most certainly perpetuated by its continued glory in movies..It might be possible in movies -tat a hero frst harasses a gal n then this gal starts lovin him..Guys jus spare us.Please make a decent n an honest attempt to woo us..These kind of actions only scare us..Jus because there s no easy way of rounding up everyone concerned with this, all these crimes are increasing at an exponential rate with passing years..Now a time has come where its extremely difficult to pick out those handful of good men from the whole lot of bastards.. Changing this behaviour is easier said than done. However, if things are left alone, they could hardly get better..
At this moment I wud want to heartily thank all those women who r into prostitution..Yes u
heard tat rite!!I dunno if u wd agree wt me..Bt I feel they r doin a very good job to da society..Had it not been for them all those people who crowd the red-light areas daily
wud not find an outlet to release their lust..Think of the condition of all women, all girls walkin on the roads..An Indian guy wud never hav got a chance to marry a workin woman with her virginity..Coz every gal walkin on the roads after dusk wud ve been their victims..By writing all this, I don proclaim that all women are very good and all men are very bad. I knw there is a good mixture of good and bad tat does exist..Only because of tat we are able to live on..Even today there were a few boys amongst of my frens who gave me their oulders to cry,consoled me n helped me face the situation..N of course i don deny -there are some gals who try seducing guys..Well my answer to tht is - Guys,Jus go n try on them..Spare us!!

I wonder how many years its gonna be before women earn their due respect in the society from all men. We have the patience and endurance and we shall wait!! Jus tell us where s the end!!

P.s- I know ths post was pretty much on its lengthier side..Having read it fully i want all of u to drop ur comments.. I jus want to know wats ur take on it??

Grievingly yours,
Vids